Breaking Negative Relationship Patterns

Breaking Negative Relationship Patterns is a practical and spiritually grounded guide that helps individuals and couples identify and overcome the repeated behaviors that quietly damage relationships and marriages. It addresses destructive cycles such as invalidation, misinterpretation, escalation, indifference, self-centeredness, detachment, abuse, and irresponsibility—patterns that shape outcomes over time.

With biblical insight, clear diagnosis, and actionable steps, Dr. Sam Oye equips readers to move from blame to accountability, from repetition to renewal. This book is a roadmap for breaking unhealthy cycles and building relationships rooted in love, trust, emotional maturity, and lasting transformation.

About the author

Dr. Sam Oye is a transformational speaker, author, pastor, and leadership and relationship coach with global influence. He writes to inform, inspire, and influence people to experience total success.

He is the Founder and Global Lead Pastor of The Transforming Church International and the convener of the Prophetic Prayer Hour, reaching over 100 nations. His work equips leaders and families for purposeful living, visionary leadership, and generational impact.